Being constantly aware of what’s going on in his life will be very gut-wrenching unless you do this.
So, sometimes with tongue firmly implanted in cheek, we present the following Co-Parenting and Dating FAQs: It depends.
Are shared holidays part of the co-parenting plan your boyfriend and his children’s mother established when they split up?
My boyfriend has been using porn since adolescence.
During college he began to seek help by attending Sexaholics Anonymous meetings and being very involved with accountability and mentoring through that organization.
Humans are sadistic, no matter how nice we all are.
If your boyfriend knows you’re hurting, it would only make him emotionally stronger. Don’t call him up crying, or tell him how much you miss him. Avoid him, and make him think you’re happy and managing just fine with your life.
We are considering a serious relationship now, but my question is this—I know he’s serious about gaining victory in the area of sexual purity, and I know it’s going to be difficult, but what should I look for before considering a more serious relationship with him? not viewing porn and not masturbating) for a specific length of time? I believe in God’s power to transform his life, and he does too, but this is still scary.
Most material I find is aimed at wives, and thus encourages them to stay and fight for the marriage, but there seems to be very little material for people considering marriage. Here’s the thing: I don’t know what’s going to happen. I don’t know if you’re going to get the happily ever after that you want.
If anything, according to some single guys we know, too many women want to rush their dates/boyfriends into meeting their kids, when the guys would rather proceed more cautiously.