With this hiatus, I realized that I subconsciously and consciously made the decision to practice celibacy.I say I made this decision subconsciously and consciously because during this time, subconsciously, I did want to have sex, but I didn’t want to deal with the emotional and possible physical consequences that come along with it, and I didn’t want to have another meaningless sexual experience.A few years ago I decided to take a hiatus from dating to regain focus of my life as a single woman.
“I’m celibate because I’m trying to figure out what makes me happy.
I’ve seen my friends get physically involved with people and it seems like sex just makes them more confused about their feelings. I’m on Tinder and the good thing about being on Tinder and being celibate is that people are very upfront with their intentions.
The beginning of this journey wasn’t difficult because I was on a hiatus from dating.
It almost seemed easy and unreal, but when I decided to go back into dating, things got real.
These are the things that worked for us, that may be a solid starting point for you, too.
I was already celibate when I met my husband and made it clear (with my words and actions) that there’d be no sex in the champagne room very early on! " Minaj played along and called herself "an equal opportunity boob shower," joking, "I love them both.""And does Nas like both of them the same as well? Minaj squealed with laughter at the very mention of the rapper's name.And, you know, he's kind of cute, too.""But have you had sleepovers yet, or is it just...? (Photo Courtesy: Rollingout.com) For some reason or another, the topic of celibacy was on my mind the other day.In the realm of relationships, the topic has always fascinated me. I will be the first to admit that when I’ve been in good sexual relationship, one question always rears it’s ugly head.I wanted to bring you all my ideas and see if you could relate. I don’t know if the fellas would be with me on this one.