This isn't just about dating multiple women - it applies to anything you do.
For example, you'll have a lot more success when approaching women if you do so like talking to a stranger is the most natural thing in the world than if you approach her sputtering "Excuse me.
We are Answer is always “maybe”Whenever you invite him to do something far in advance, his answer is always “maybe.” He doesn’t say, “Because I may have a work thing” or give an excuse. If this only happens occasionally, you may not have to worry.
But if it happens Sex is sporadic Men are humans too. Your guy might go in and out of feeling okay about sleeping with you.
I know it's really weird for me to come talk to you out of the blue, and I won't take up too much of your time, but I wanted to ask you something…" So, how do you tell a woman that you want to date multiple women, in a way that communicates that this is totally normal?
There are a few possibilities, and I cover them all in my Relationship Management 3-DVD course (which is about everything from traditional relationships to friends with benefits, though of course a lot of it is on dating multiple women).
Really multiple dating is just a code term for: 1) Keeping your options open.
2) Being afraid of commitment because you’re afraid of getting hurt. Some people keep their options open because they want to shag around, they think there’s plenty of fish in the sea, and they also worry that someone who perfectly meets their criteria may be out there somewhere and are afraid of ‘settling’.
If you love women, enjoy feminine company, and are just not looking for a serious relationship at this time, then go right ahead.
If, however, you have some bitterness or anger towards women and feel like you want to “get one over” on them, this is not the way to do it.
You need to explore where your motivation to date several women comes from before you can know for sure that going through with this new dating setup is a good idea.