They often see wives as mother-like, or pure, and not appropriate for "dirty" or "nasty" sex."In the gutter" is only one expression reflecting the shameful nature of sex.It's easy for your affair to remain clandestine if you've met online and checked the other person out in advance.
I wrote a novel called in which the characters walk through these issues as they show up in love relationships.
The reader is the fly on the wall as the characters explore their sexual shame, and learn to relate with the partners they live with and love.
The extramarital-affair online dating website Ashley Madison has been hacked, and the hacking group taking credit has threatened to release full details for the site's subscribers, which reportedly number more than 37 million across 46 countries, unless the service shuts down.
The breach is a reminder that hackers can potentially expose not only the information that people share, but also the identities of those with whom they've shared it.
My work with clients and my explorations on Ashley Madison reveal that sexual relating is perhaps the most confusing arena in which to relate.
Love, sex, and shame are interwoven in ways that are difficult to pull apart.
For a serial adulterer, an adultery club is the perfect way to meet other philanderers!
You can meet people with the same penchant for extramarital affairs, and arrange regular sessions if you like.
See Also: Ransomware: The Look at Future Trends A hacking outfit billing itself as "The Impact Team" has threatened to release "all customer information databases, source code repositories, financial records, emails" tied to Ashley Madison.
The attackers are demanding that Toronto-based parent company Avid Life Media shut down the dating site, as well as another one of its sites, called Established Men, according to information security blogger Brian Krebs, who broke the news of the hack.
This is the major reason espoused for committing adultery – it is human nature.