Some red flags are obvious, but a lot of people can do a great job hiding their negative traits to the point few people would suspect that anything is amiss.
Other than listening to the person tell their life-story, what else can a person go off of early on in the relationship if the person doesn't exhibit any obvious red flags? He was fat and short so he thought she was cute (she wasn't) and she was super rich so there were some perks.
However, as you’ll learn in this article, beautiful women tend to have many traits that are common among Borderlines.
That is the society we now live in and if you reject this truth, then you’ll continue to suffer in your relationships.
Yet, there is a widespread psychological disorder that most people know little or nothing about. Because its symptoms are largely interpersonal, causing many to view it as a relationship issue, not a mental health one.
Also, people shy away from the term because of its unflattering name: Borderline personalities run the gamut from mild to severe.
Obviously things like throwing a glass and some of her outbursts were uncalled for but in the end I always though. A girl that had grown up with us had also moved back and had a husband that was a pretty cool guy, so we hung out a good amount.
****I would consider myself a high functioning, recovering borderline.****I know that there are many borderlines who pursue relationships.
It was hard for me to define this as an "illness" versus her being very impulsive or just selfish in some ways.
I can get that depression is based on actual deficiency of serotonin or another chemical in your brain but she would just be mean or hostile at the drop of a hat. Put your meat in the mixer and then be done with it. After living in Denver for about a decade, we moved back to our hometown to raise a family.
Wait too long, you're being deceptive, tell too soon, you have poor boundaries and are guilting them into not leaving.
Dating a girl with BPD doesn’t have to be nearly as difficult as you may believe. Because if you ask me, BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) is now a mainstream ‘disorder’ that nearly every young, attractive woman has. Even the psychologists who know what they are talking about say that diagnosing BPD is virtually impossible. Because almost every girl has some sort of BPD behavior.
She called to find out where I was, I told her, and the conversation ended with her screaming "motherfucker!