"I haven't done anything wrong." Instead of arguing about how I felt or figuring out how I wanted to handle the larger issue, I focused on what I needed at that moment — to take medicine and get healthy — much as I had throughout our rocky marriage.
It took a few more days of wrenching confrontation for our marriage to disintegrate.
That said, need to warn you: the following slides do contain some racy and sexual content.
There is such a difference between what is available for men and woman.
When I confronted my husband, Chris (not his real name), with my test results that night, he denied he was to blame.
"They've got to be wrong, or I must have picked up something in the gym," he insisted.
that typically refers to a subculture of black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men; some avoid sharing this information even if they have female sexual partner(s) married or single.
Down-low has been viewed as "a type of impression management that some of the informants use to present themselves in a manner that is consistent with perceived norms about masculine attribute, attitudes, and behavior".
Other DL men form romantic relationships with men and may even be peripheral participants in mainstream gay culture, all unknown to their colleagues and families.
Most DL men identify themselves not as gay or bisexual but first and foremost as black.
I didn't respond to emails or look at everyone's private photos. That said, I was pleasantly surprised by how easy the site was to use.