It’s hard to tell someone something that you know will hurt their feelings and at least he decided to be honest with you.
"I think we should be friends" is just about the worst sentence in the English language. Extra points for ballsyness for throwing in the "something might happen," but also points for being manipulative. The decision is up to you, but the perspective friendship doesn't or beneficial in any way, and far from ideal. Save yourself and your ego (which I'm sure is strong enough to take this little hit). And really move on.__Do you think you can be real friends after dating for just a few months?
Only in a culture as weird and neurotic as ours do we think that we should develop platonic relationships with those we've dated after we've stopped penetrating each other. And nor should this reader be: Dear Single John, The guy I had been dating for 3 months recently broke up with me because he has "no feelings" for me (cue for my ego to start deflating). So yes, he probably means it, but what's the advantage to you? __Have a question about Dating, Relationships, or Sex for Single John?
Keeping a man as a “friend” can be a single woman’s biggest dating challenge.
Men are genetically wired to propagate the human species; they want to be sexually involved with a woman.
Also my feelings are hurt simply for being broken up with.
He knows you're a good egg, but his heart isn't in it right now, so he'd like to keep you around in case his future adventures don't work out, or he needs a shoulder to cry on. He knows you have it for him bad, otherwise he would never try and pull this stuff. Two Easy Ways to Get a Little Freaky in Bed (With Stuff You Probably Already Have!He’ll figure out the rest.”Until a man confronts you with, “I want to be more than just friends,” you should not assume that you are anything but friends.In the meantime, tell him to keep his sausage in its wrapper, be a fun date and enjoy your time together. I think you should explain to him how you feel and that you need some time away from him.If your ex truly wants to be friends with you, then he should respect your choice and wait until you're ready.My Ben-Affleck-look-alike son said, “There’s nothing I hate more than a woman who’s not honest about where you stand with her.