Although the idea that I was a "cradle robber" or a "manther" was never spoken, there was no denying that our connection has always been attached to a certain stigma. December has issues related to intimacy and control and is somehow broken because he can't relate to women his own age.
May-December relationships are typically frowned upon. It's assumed that May has father issues to work out relating to authority. Magoo driving around in his mid-life crisis mobile with a beautifully-cleavaged girl half his age beside him while a lovely ear-flapping Vizsla slobbers up the back seat. I've always felt some people grow up "without a generation." I'm one of those people.
I was raised among bright, kind, older boys who more often treated me as an equal than a nuisance.
The first vocal feminist I ever knew was male: my cousin Jeffrey, who was one of my closest friends, and 11 years older than me.
Is there something intrinsic to queer culture that is conducive to age gaps between partners?
And what is it about older women that’s so damn appealing to me?
The May December Society is a community for people in age gap relationships.
This website serves as a resource for all things May-December, from the latest headlines to the barbeque you hosted last night.10 major advantages to May December relationships A relationship depends on more than just age.Undoubtedly, someone your own age may have a similar perspective on pop culture, but that by no means signals that they are a good fit.The first steps on my journey to becoming an adult who shuns ageism had little to nothing to do with being queer.Rather, it began with a childhood of formative familial friendships with my brother and older cousins, mostly male.Membership is not just limited to couples but anyone who is fascinated by age gap or interested in finding an older or younger partner.