Here's what you need to know about birth order types—and how they mix, match, mesh or clash.
These children tend to be conscientious, ambitious, organized and—in relationships—dominant.
As such, it takes some time for me — for us — to get used to sharing a bed.
It wasn’t until I was older that I truly realized the special pros and cons of being an only child. From a young age, my parents forced me to make choices.
Even as simple as "Choose between these outfits" in elementary school; they wanted me to be able to choose things for myself.
Are you a take-charge firstborn—or the attention-hungry baby of the family?
Where you fall in your family's birth-order hierarchy helps shape your personality and plays a significant role in your relationship.
"Your personality is directly related to how you interact with other people," says William Cane, author of The Birth Order Book of Love, since the first people you interacted with were your parents and siblings.
Figuring out your own birth-order personality, and that of your significant other, is simply one strategy you can use to assess your compatibility, adds Catherine Salmon, Ph D, professor of psychology at the University of Redlands in California, and coauthor of the upcoming book, The Myth of the Middle Child.
You see, when I was a kid, my folks were undecided about whether or not they wanted another kid.
So, they considerately asked me – when I was just an infant at the time – how I'd feel about having a little brother or sister. I emphatically told them that no, I didn't want a sibling. The last thing I wanted was for somebody to take that away from me. This predilection for gifts and material things is just one of the many qualities you will discover when you date an only child.
Is it really true that middle children cause more problems?
That firstborns are more responsible but also a bit uptight?
I'm allowed to say this because I'm an only child myself.