(What transpires in private chat is up to you.) But updated rules go much father.Basically, the most risque you can go is board shorts; no Speedos. * Pants and shorts must be worn normally, buttoned, and not pulled or hanging down. * No images that show semen (or any fluid made to look like semen or ejaculation) on anything in photo.But London-based web designer and artist Ted Sterchi provides a sweeter perspective on the app that makes finding anonymous sex easier than shopping for shoes and has begun to play an increasingly important role in gay dating culture.
Some men (and women, too) have sent in their pictures, asking for a portrait.
Sometimes he obliges; other times he refers them to his online store.
Hines entices his (often closeted) subjects under false pretenses; effectively outs several closeted athletes who live in repressive countries; then writes about the whole thing in a tone of mocking yet lurid condescension. ET, the Hines begins by explaining that his entire assignment consisted of walking around the Olympic Village while using several hookup apps, hoping to learn whether “an Average Joe” can “join the bacchanalia.” He quickly abandons apps like Tinder, which are mostly used by straight people, for Grindr, which is for gay men: “No prizes for guessing that Grindr proved more of an instant hookup success than Bumble or Tinder,” he writes.
Presumably, Hines awards “no prizes” because he believes gays are more promiscuous than straight people—a theme to which Hines often returns throughout his vile piece.
(After several minutes of Googling, I surmised the identities of five of the gay athletes Hines described.) I’m not going to repeat his descriptions, because—updated the article a few hours after publication to remove personally identifiable information (while insisting that outing gay athletes was “never our reporter’s intention.”) But really: Anyone who has heard of Grindr has also heard of the Wayback Machine. ] article where he admitted to entrapment.” That is correct, but it’s worth exploring why Hines embarked upon this weird, sleazy quest in the first place. The first is that Hines simply enjoys tittering with condescension at all the gay athletes who take the bait and engage with him— But the offensive purpose of Hines’ article is really the least of its problems.
Far worse is the actual damage it will likely cause to real, live human beings—inevitable consequences that Hines blithely ignored.ago, I warned my wife that the experiment I was about to engage in was entirely non-sexual, lest she glance over my shoulder at my i Phone. I set my profile photo as a cat, and carefully turned off the "show distance" feature in the app's privacy settings, an option meant to hide my location.A minute later I called Nguyen Phong Hoang, a computer security researcher in Kyoto, Japan, and told him the general neighborhood where I live in Brooklyn.Because Hines is not gay, you might find his use of Grindr a bit dishonest. Hines seems to expect his marks to immediately divine that he is a straight journalist, and if they don’t, too bad for them.But not to worry: “For the record,” Hines writes, “I didn’t lie to anyone or pretend to be someone I wasn’t—unless you count being on Grindr in the first place—since I’m straight, with a wife and child.” This sentence reflects a stunning amount of ignorance, because, in Hines’ situation, This misrepresentation might be excusable had Hines noted in his profile that he was a journalist on assignment. Instead, he “confessed to being a journalist as soon as anyone asked who I was.” As soon as anyone asked who he was? He also believes his targets have a fair chance of catching wise because he “used my own picture.” (“[J]ust of my face…” he adds coyly.) With his dubious premise established, Hines proceeds to out athlete after athlete, providing enough information about each Olympian he encounters for anyone with basic Google skills to uncover their identities.Several athletes who are closeted at home (and possibly to their own teammates) will wake up on Thursday morning to the news that the has outed them.