Whether you have already snagged yourself a silver fox, or you are on the hunt for one, there are a couple of things you’ll need to take into consideration.
If the guy she likes is significantly older, like ten years or more, she’ll be that much more on guard for beta bahavior.
An older guy who is needy is a bigger loser than a younger guy who is needy, because the younger guy at least has the excuse of inexperience.
Plus, the older guy has to learn how to handle the elevated risk of being labeled a “lech” or “pervy”.
Examples: Chat up one other girl in 29 year old’s presence.
The two critical rules for older guys dating girls under 25: Rule #1: Don’t be needy You should never be needy with any woman (exceptions made if she’s an over 30 divorcee with two kids and a Snickers bar figure) but it is especially important to refrain from showing even the slightest displays of neediness with the under 25 girls.
A young woman is extra-sensitive to the subtle signals that a man gives off when he is a little too happy to be with her.
Just remember that different mindset comes with ages and that it takes time for both of you to get accustomed to one another and the way you see things.
Just be patient and don’t let new situations bring you down.
Many people regard those who only hang out in the bar as suspicious*. If you catch somebody’s eye, and the two of you look at each other for more than a second, then you’re good to start dancing with each other (at this point, you don’t even have to ask about the dance, you both know it’s coming).