The key to getting rid of the fuckboys in your life is to know how to identify early signs of fuckboyism before you get too attached.
Here are some telltale signs the guy you're dating is a fuckboy you should def ditch. He says things like, "we should hang" but never initiates an actual date. He says things like, "let me know when you're free" rather than proposing an actual time and place. When you ask him if he's seeing anyone else, he avoids answering and says something like, "you don't have to worry about that" 5.
He uses phrases like, "keep me posted" and, "let's stay in touch" when you invite him to come out instead of just giving you a straight answer. His friends don't seem to know who you are, which means chances are slim he's raving about you to them. Or his friends all know who you are but act like they know something you don't because they do: They know he's seeing other people. He'll disappear for days without you hearing from him, and when he finally resurfaces he offers no explanation, like it's perfectly normal. When you ask him what's up, he over-explains why he's been so busy and offers specific details like, "hey!
Then one woman will come along and she’ll blow every girl you’ve ever been with before out of the water – this woman is a keeper. She’ll hold conversation that’ll genuinely engage you, you’ll have respect for her and you’ll find yourself falling in love with the way she speaks with so much passion and proficiency.
Let’s call a halt to the day of only finding ‘dumb girls’ attractive. You find her completely beautiful always Sure, a woman won’t necessarily be on top form when she’s ill or whatever else – but if you find your girl beautiful first thing in the morning, throughout the day, when she’s chilling in her pjs and last thing at night when she’s make-up free then she’s definitely worth holding on to. She’s kind and has a nurturing nature Of course, not everybody dreams of one day having children but if you do – a woman who you know will make a great and loving mother is certainly a strong attribute.
As a couple are you merely going through the motions rather than moving toward the potential of a commitment?
Here are some considerations to keep in mind when assessing the viability of your current relationship.
Chances are, if she’s nurturing she’ll appreciate that side of you too and you can take it in turns to take care of each other.
I don't know if it's a Southern California thing, or perhaps just a loneliness thing, but has anyone else noticed how much dating bullsh*t some people are enduring just to avoid being alone?Bullshit fairytales will have you believe that only girls kiss a few toads and then find the one.In truth, guys have to go through a few toads of their own to find that ‘keeper’ too.If you spot, like, more than three of these behaviors, it's time to reevaluate your life and your choices (not to mention your relationship).Not all girls can have as much confidence and grace as Marilyn Monroe.I’m fully in support of binning these stringent and archaic traditions but I also believe it can make finding the right woman harder.