I hadn’t noticed it until recently, but Paul says something unexpected in the first chapter of Romans.
The apostle first introduces himself to the church (1:1), then underscores his theological and spiritual credentials (1:2-7), and expresses his genuine love for the believers in Rome (1:8).
The imperfections of others never release us from the need to work on our own shortcomings.” Therefore, when we focus on finding the right person, we should also focus on becoming the right person for someone else.
The strengths we bring to a marriage will undoubtedly contribute to the success of the marriage. Scott of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles have suggested several other factors we should keep in mind. You are much more likely to be happy,” said President Hinckley.
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Engage in exciting discussions with like-minded individuals on exciting topics such as life, love, leisure, health, finances, retirement, friendship and society.
And then there are my favorites: the people who helpfully point out that there’ll be no one to look after you in your old age. Mohler’s speech — as columnist Camerin Courtney pointed out in a rebuttal — heavily emphasized that today’s church focuses on marriage as the institution that God uses to make us mature and holy. The implication seems to be that we’re just a bunch of permanent adolescents drifting aimlessly and uselessly through life.
(Thanks for reminding me once again of that topic that has so often kept me lying awake into the small hours! Married couples with children need and deserve support — but so do singles.
Paul longs to see these brothers and sisters, and he reports that he has prayed toward that end (1:9-10).
Paul had good reasons why he wanted to see the Christians in Rome; he desired to strengthen them through the impartation of a spiritual gift () and the preaching of the gospel (). What I find remarkable is what Paul says immediately following verse 11.
Or that you can’t really understand what love is because you’re single and childless. Many churches will not even consider me as a pastoral candidate because I am still single.” Not everyone goes as far as Southern Baptist Theological Seminary President Albert Mohler, who infamously argued at the 2004 New Attitude Conference that delaying marriage is sinful (leading to an outcry that made him clarify his position).
Never mind that this goes directly against the Christian faith, which teaches that God is the source of all love and that everyone — regardless of marital status! There are the people who talk about singles in the church as a problem. And I’m not saying that there’s some sort of deliberate conspiracy to make all Christian single people feel about two inches tall.
Fortunately, President Hinckley and other Church leaders have given us inspired counsel concerning these questions.