Why dating sites are a waste of time

In a nutshell: Swiping right strokes the ego of the recipient, and paves the way to sex-on-demand.

Of course, there are online dating success stories.

Normally, this would be a great thing, as technology makes things better.

Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.

I wrote about this in Finding the One Online extensively – what it’s like to be a woman dating online and how men need to up their games to connect.

Man poses as woman on dating site to prove his point.

Man assumes women have it easy because they get a ton of attention.

Hell, I just gave a TEDx talk about this very thing.

Men scramble to approach women like rats chewing on a meaty chicken bone, and then wonder why women are so turned off by them.

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It seems like most guys who use online dating will never get a date, even if they message 1000 different girls.

But with the advent of technology, "dating" doesn't exist anymore.

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